Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
and u say he's just a friend
something that i posted on What The Hellz.. repost.. 05/11/09
“guys and girls are only FRIENDS because the girl keeps it that way.” - James P.
u know those guys… the ones that u date that automatically assume ur fuckin around with EVERY guy u say hi to? those insecure guys who give every human born with a penis the evil eye as soon as u introduce him as your “friend”. the guys that are too paranoid that they go into ur phone and delete ever number attached with a masculine name. all the while, this same guy is takin out his homegirl to dinner cuz she just broke up with her man. ummm… WHAT?
why is it, that men cannot seem to fathom the idea that men and women can just be friends? or wait.. lemme rephrase that. they cannot comprehend the idea of their girlfriend having a platonic relationship with another man.
ok ok, sometimes guys are too much. and sometimes they swear their game is tight and we’ll just get swept off our feet. and sometimes they’re a little too agressive when they know they need to just back the fuck off. but has it ever occured to you gentlemen that we, as your women, will sometimes ALWAYS know when to put our foot down. that when another man says that we’re pretty, us saying “thank you” does not translate to “lets have sex.” that we dress up to go out, not to impress anyone else, but so that we don’t waste the pretty. “If you don’t want men calling your girlfriend pretty - date someone ugly.” - Hayati
male/female platonic relationships are possible. they are real, and they happen everyday.. and although in some cases, one person wants more out of the relationship than the other, most of the time when she says he’s just a friend, HE’S REALLY JUST A FRIEND.
and i know it goes both ways and we already know there are some scandalous ass females out there but this blog isnt about that.. we dont go around calling every woman in ur phone book askin her how she know u and if u guys have dated now do we? (or well.. i dont, at least)
and its crazy how that intro quote was said by a man.. cuz they swear we have all the power. and WE DO! we say no and we say when to go. (i swear having a vag badge puts u on top of the world).. but fellas can’t u TRUST ur women to do the right thing by you? we aint as shady as u’d like to believe. i promise.
so guys.. ease up on ur lady please! not only do u look crazy and insecure, but it brings ur pogi points down by at least 5. remember, ur still the one dickin her down at night. RELAX or you’ll head from “boyfriend” to “just a friend” in no time.
“guys and girls are only FRIENDS because the girl keeps it that way.” - James P.
u know those guys… the ones that u date that automatically assume ur fuckin around with EVERY guy u say hi to? those insecure guys who give every human born with a penis the evil eye as soon as u introduce him as your “friend”. the guys that are too paranoid that they go into ur phone and delete ever number attached with a masculine name. all the while, this same guy is takin out his homegirl to dinner cuz she just broke up with her man. ummm… WHAT?
why is it, that men cannot seem to fathom the idea that men and women can just be friends? or wait.. lemme rephrase that. they cannot comprehend the idea of their girlfriend having a platonic relationship with another man.
ok ok, sometimes guys are too much. and sometimes they swear their game is tight and we’ll just get swept off our feet. and sometimes they’re a little too agressive when they know they need to just back the fuck off. but has it ever occured to you gentlemen that we, as your women, will sometimes ALWAYS know when to put our foot down. that when another man says that we’re pretty, us saying “thank you” does not translate to “lets have sex.” that we dress up to go out, not to impress anyone else, but so that we don’t waste the pretty. “If you don’t want men calling your girlfriend pretty - date someone ugly.” - Hayati
male/female platonic relationships are possible. they are real, and they happen everyday.. and although in some cases, one person wants more out of the relationship than the other, most of the time when she says he’s just a friend, HE’S REALLY JUST A FRIEND.
and i know it goes both ways and we already know there are some scandalous ass females out there but this blog isnt about that.. we dont go around calling every woman in ur phone book askin her how she know u and if u guys have dated now do we? (or well.. i dont, at least)
and its crazy how that intro quote was said by a man.. cuz they swear we have all the power. and WE DO! we say no and we say when to go. (i swear having a vag badge puts u on top of the world).. but fellas can’t u TRUST ur women to do the right thing by you? we aint as shady as u’d like to believe. i promise.
so guys.. ease up on ur lady please! not only do u look crazy and insecure, but it brings ur pogi points down by at least 5. remember, ur still the one dickin her down at night. RELAX or you’ll head from “boyfriend” to “just a friend” in no time.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
on love and bullshit.
**this post is also up on wordpress. tell me whatcha think. maybe it'll help me decide to stay here or move over**
in an earlier post i said that sometimes, love just isnt enough to keep two people together. and today i got to thinking about WHY.
sometimes the bullshit gets in the way.
have u ever noticed how people act differently given different situations? granted, i know u dont act the same in front of your mom at home as you do with ur girls on any given night out or even with your significant other on a date. but the essence of you.. the core of you should stay the same right?
so why is it that everything you love about someone seems to get thrown out the window as soon as shit hits the fan? the same person who said she would always be there for you is all of a sudden no where near you and runnin her mouth puttin ur bizness on blast. the same person who promised that he aint the kinda guy to fuck around is at the club tryna holla at your fucking cousin. the quiet, reserved girl you fell in love with morphs into the abnoxious chick at denny's at 2 am who can't handle her liquor. the "got-my-shit-straight-swagga-right-brown-skin" guy who swept you off your feet turns into someone you dont even recognize. and you can't even understand why.
i see it like this..
when you're waist deep in a relationship with someone, you do a lot of compromise. which is of course how it should be -- back and forth, meet in the middle, give some take some kinda deal so long as the both of you are moving forward and together. but of course some people lose themselves in the process. some people give too much or take too much or get too comfortable with always having their way.
but you love them anyways. and you look past the flaws, and the selfishness and the pride and you WORK. you work at making it right, you work at making it better, you work at making your relationship work. and then one day you decide to do something for yourself, rather than for her. you decide you want some alone time, rather than a day of nothing with him. and then the switch goes off.
small changes in your thinking translate into big changes in the dynamic of your relationship. more "me" time might be misconstrued as "fuck, she doesnt love me anymore, she's fuckin around." saying "no" more often is viewed as "he no longer wants to do this for me, is he falling out of love with me?" the other party starts to feel... rejected. and thats not a feeling that usually coincides with love.
a healthy, equal relationship is a system of checks and balances. you call each other out on ur bullshit. you keep each other in check. but not all relationships are healthy or equal.. and so the rejected party gets desperate. they push their boundaries more... start becoming someone else entirely, picking fights, screaming for attention -- all for YOU to prove your love... which in turn does the complete opposite and just pushes you away.
you remember how she was with you. you remember how he cooked you breakfast in the mornings, or how she put notes in your lunch, or how the two of you used to just talk for hours on end about nothing. you see this person that you still LOVE.. become someone you start to hate and it breaks your heart inside. because you know she's better than that. you know he really isnt like that... but actions speak louder than words and trying to breathe with a broken heart is just too much to bear.
so you decide you're better off as friends. you try and be normal but you dont even know what the fuck normal is. normal is morning sex and breakfast in bed but "friends" dont do that. normal is holding hands down the street on the way to dinner but now you dont know what to do with yourself and its too awkward to even look in the eye let alone give a hug hello. normal is being head over heels, shout at the mountain tops, crazy jealous, have you all to herself in love. and sometimes she just dont know how to be any different.
sometimes the love gets in the way.
so then WHAT THE FUCK?! its a catch 22, it doesnt work with you're lovers and it doesnt work when you're friends. what do you do now and where do you go from here? and i really have no answer for you....this is one of those rhetorical questions that will never have a wrong or a right.
i just hope one day it wont make sense to me when my best friend tells me she wants him to leave but she doesnt. that i wont get it when i hear a friend tell me he hates his ex but yet he's still giving her morning sex and breakfast in bed (and lets her use his car and says "how high" when she says "jump" but lets not even go there.)
sometimes, love just isnt enough... and whoever first said this should be punched in the mouth for slapping the world in the face with the truth. hmph.
in an earlier post i said that sometimes, love just isnt enough to keep two people together. and today i got to thinking about WHY.
sometimes the bullshit gets in the way.
have u ever noticed how people act differently given different situations? granted, i know u dont act the same in front of your mom at home as you do with ur girls on any given night out or even with your significant other on a date. but the essence of you.. the core of you should stay the same right?
so why is it that everything you love about someone seems to get thrown out the window as soon as shit hits the fan? the same person who said she would always be there for you is all of a sudden no where near you and runnin her mouth puttin ur bizness on blast. the same person who promised that he aint the kinda guy to fuck around is at the club tryna holla at your fucking cousin. the quiet, reserved girl you fell in love with morphs into the abnoxious chick at denny's at 2 am who can't handle her liquor. the "got-my-shit-straight-swagga-right-brown-skin" guy who swept you off your feet turns into someone you dont even recognize. and you can't even understand why.
i see it like this..
when you're waist deep in a relationship with someone, you do a lot of compromise. which is of course how it should be -- back and forth, meet in the middle, give some take some kinda deal so long as the both of you are moving forward and together. but of course some people lose themselves in the process. some people give too much or take too much or get too comfortable with always having their way.
but you love them anyways. and you look past the flaws, and the selfishness and the pride and you WORK. you work at making it right, you work at making it better, you work at making your relationship work. and then one day you decide to do something for yourself, rather than for her. you decide you want some alone time, rather than a day of nothing with him. and then the switch goes off.
small changes in your thinking translate into big changes in the dynamic of your relationship. more "me" time might be misconstrued as "fuck, she doesnt love me anymore, she's fuckin around." saying "no" more often is viewed as "he no longer wants to do this for me, is he falling out of love with me?" the other party starts to feel... rejected. and thats not a feeling that usually coincides with love.
a healthy, equal relationship is a system of checks and balances. you call each other out on ur bullshit. you keep each other in check. but not all relationships are healthy or equal.. and so the rejected party gets desperate. they push their boundaries more... start becoming someone else entirely, picking fights, screaming for attention -- all for YOU to prove your love... which in turn does the complete opposite and just pushes you away.
you remember how she was with you. you remember how he cooked you breakfast in the mornings, or how she put notes in your lunch, or how the two of you used to just talk for hours on end about nothing. you see this person that you still LOVE.. become someone you start to hate and it breaks your heart inside. because you know she's better than that. you know he really isnt like that... but actions speak louder than words and trying to breathe with a broken heart is just too much to bear.
so you decide you're better off as friends. you try and be normal but you dont even know what the fuck normal is. normal is morning sex and breakfast in bed but "friends" dont do that. normal is holding hands down the street on the way to dinner but now you dont know what to do with yourself and its too awkward to even look in the eye let alone give a hug hello. normal is being head over heels, shout at the mountain tops, crazy jealous, have you all to herself in love. and sometimes she just dont know how to be any different.
sometimes the love gets in the way.
so then WHAT THE FUCK?! its a catch 22, it doesnt work with you're lovers and it doesnt work when you're friends. what do you do now and where do you go from here? and i really have no answer for you....this is one of those rhetorical questions that will never have a wrong or a right.
i just hope one day it wont make sense to me when my best friend tells me she wants him to leave but she doesnt. that i wont get it when i hear a friend tell me he hates his ex but yet he's still giving her morning sex and breakfast in bed (and lets her use his car and says "how high" when she says "jump" but lets not even go there.)
sometimes, love just isnt enough... and whoever first said this should be punched in the mouth for slapping the world in the face with the truth. hmph.
blogspot vs wordpress
so.. i'm debating on wether or not to move my blog to wordpress...
after seeing a few friends do the same, and having my other blog (WTF) in wordpress, i can't decide on wether or not i wanna make the move.
raaachem.wordpress.com
whatchu think? thoughts? comments?
after seeing a few friends do the same, and having my other blog (WTF) in wordpress, i can't decide on wether or not i wanna make the move.
raaachem.wordpress.com
whatchu think? thoughts? comments?
free shit. yeah i said FREE
if u havent already heard, Hellz Bellz paired up with nitro:licious and is giving away FREE SHIT from the newly released "Renegades of Funk" Hellz line. this shit is ILLL..
click HERE to enter.. and see the Hellz blog here.
p.s. i got an honorable mention in one of the entires! WOOT WOOT! thanks sha!
click HERE to enter.. and see the Hellz blog here.
p.s. i got an honorable mention in one of the entires! WOOT WOOT! thanks sha!
Monday, May 11, 2009
whats good in the (mother)HOOD.
blissfully uneventful sundays are my forte.
i spent mother's day in my sweats, at home, playing with Adonis. We visited Mateo's gravesite and ate applesauce and cookies in the sunshine and I HAD THE TIME OF MY LIFE.
i can finally say that i'm at a place where ive forgiven myself. i've stopped asking myself if i could have done anything different. i've stopped going over it in my head again and again and again. and it feels AMAZING. and although i still don't feel whole, my heart does not feel empty. i spent yesterday feeling... joyous.
mike and i took our mamas out last night to dinner and i looked at them and understood. i understand what it means to love someone more than i possibly thought i could love anyone. i remember when i fell in love for the first time.. i was actually amazed that someone could feel so deeply about someone else... then when i fell in love with mike i felt like.... i loved him so much that my heart was gonna explode into a thousand pieces. i didnt think there was room in my soul for anymore love... and then i met our son. and its like that, times a gazillion and one plus infinity and beyond.
growing up my mom used to always preach to me. in between all the "buwisit" and the "puneta" and the "mag sisise ka pag wala ka ng magulang" (yes i'm a fob AND WHAT?) she would always say that i would never understand her until i have children of my own. and betcha by golly wow she was right. and i'm sure she was always right, i was just too hard headed and self absorbed to realize it. and i know everyone goes thru the growing pains of life, but my mom has been absolutely on point about all my pain of growing. i now believe that she's a genius. and u bet ur ass she still says "buwisit" and "puneta" but u can also bet ur right leg that what she says no longer goes in one ear and out the other. and god, i appreciate her.
motherhood is the hardest thing i've ever had to do. its the biggest responsibility of my life. its also the most rewarding. it never fails to teach me lessons that i've never learned and to surprise me with happiness i've never known. i also know that its the most worthwhile task that will ever be asked of me, and i'm completely game for whatever comes next.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, YO!
i spent mother's day in my sweats, at home, playing with Adonis. We visited Mateo's gravesite and ate applesauce and cookies in the sunshine and I HAD THE TIME OF MY LIFE.
i can finally say that i'm at a place where ive forgiven myself. i've stopped asking myself if i could have done anything different. i've stopped going over it in my head again and again and again. and it feels AMAZING. and although i still don't feel whole, my heart does not feel empty. i spent yesterday feeling... joyous.
mike and i took our mamas out last night to dinner and i looked at them and understood. i understand what it means to love someone more than i possibly thought i could love anyone. i remember when i fell in love for the first time.. i was actually amazed that someone could feel so deeply about someone else... then when i fell in love with mike i felt like.... i loved him so much that my heart was gonna explode into a thousand pieces. i didnt think there was room in my soul for anymore love... and then i met our son. and its like that, times a gazillion and one plus infinity and beyond.
growing up my mom used to always preach to me. in between all the "buwisit" and the "puneta" and the "mag sisise ka pag wala ka ng magulang" (yes i'm a fob AND WHAT?) she would always say that i would never understand her until i have children of my own. and betcha by golly wow she was right. and i'm sure she was always right, i was just too hard headed and self absorbed to realize it. and i know everyone goes thru the growing pains of life, but my mom has been absolutely on point about all my pain of growing. i now believe that she's a genius. and u bet ur ass she still says "buwisit" and "puneta" but u can also bet ur right leg that what she says no longer goes in one ear and out the other. and god, i appreciate her.
motherhood is the hardest thing i've ever had to do. its the biggest responsibility of my life. its also the most rewarding. it never fails to teach me lessons that i've never learned and to surprise me with happiness i've never known. i also know that its the most worthwhile task that will ever be asked of me, and i'm completely game for whatever comes next.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, YO!
Friday, May 8, 2009
WTFun with WTFriends
on this WTFriday..
just for shits n giggles i changed my AIM status and asked my entire buddy list to take a WTF?! pic just to see who would do it... and the verdict is that I HAVE THE FUNNEST FRIENDS. =)
click the pictures to check their websites / blogs. this post will be updated throughout the day if i get any more in. check my What The Forks?! blog for more!
Thursday, May 7, 2009
married.. with children
im not big on writing about matters of the heart.. only cuz i believe some things should be kept between u and ur significant other. if i want my business out on front street, i would put it there. and even tho i'm a blogger, i'm on twitter, fb, imeem, meebo, etc etc and most aspects of my life are pretty public.. i still value my anonymity.
but this week i've stumbled across some situations, not only within my own relationship but with my friend's as well and i just had to speak about it. and i apologize in advance if this feels like its all over the place, cuz this is just one of those that wont be proofread.
love and marriage. go together like a horse and carriage..this i tell u brother, you can't have one without the other? not necessarily. although i grew up thinking that love and marriage are interdependent on each other (if ur in love, u plan to get married. and u wouldnt get married without being in love, right?) most of my adult life has been spent realizing that this in fact, is not the case.
i've seen friends who have been together FOREVER... kids, a house, a thousand cars and a lifetime later they still arent married. they're actually barely in love. and they've just realized that maybe they shouldnt be together. i've watched others get married for every reason other than love, and then seen the nasty divorce and child custody battle that follows.
love without marriage and marriage without love. i absulutely think the former is acceptable and in some cases more favorable, and that the latter should be a sin.. but in both scenarios my question is... where's the fairytale? maybe its just the girly girl in me but i always invisioned this "love" thing to be "happily ever after" like snow white or cinderella.
but u know what? people change and forget to tell each other. people fall in and out of love and break up over petty shit. people just dont seem to be worth it. people work and grow and i thought the whole point of being with someone is to work towards a common dream and grow with each other right? so what happens when u find urselves on sepearate pages in different chapters of your story?? to make anything work takes a lot of compromise and lateral movement to meet in the middle. "but if you have to move backwards to meet him in the middle, then its not worth it. you can't go backwards. " - mama hayati.
and i absolutely believe that two people can fall in love again, even after falling out of love and falling into complacenency with one another. i also believe that sometimes, love just isnt enough. and other times love isnt really love. its the fear of being alone, or its being too comfortable with each other, or its just plain selfishness. dont cheat yourself out of something amazing and vow to be able to tell the difference.
i've been with my husband for 7 years. people always say marriage changes everything. it kind of does.. and it kind of doesnt. the only difference between being married and not, is that breaking up is not an option. but then again, it never was for me.
they say love makes the world go round, but its what keeps my world together. after all the blood, sweat, and tears... love is what's left.. and for me, love is what makes it all worth it.
but this week i've stumbled across some situations, not only within my own relationship but with my friend's as well and i just had to speak about it. and i apologize in advance if this feels like its all over the place, cuz this is just one of those that wont be proofread.
love and marriage. go together like a horse and carriage..this i tell u brother, you can't have one without the other? not necessarily. although i grew up thinking that love and marriage are interdependent on each other (if ur in love, u plan to get married. and u wouldnt get married without being in love, right?) most of my adult life has been spent realizing that this in fact, is not the case.
i've seen friends who have been together FOREVER... kids, a house, a thousand cars and a lifetime later they still arent married. they're actually barely in love. and they've just realized that maybe they shouldnt be together. i've watched others get married for every reason other than love, and then seen the nasty divorce and child custody battle that follows.
love without marriage and marriage without love. i absulutely think the former is acceptable and in some cases more favorable, and that the latter should be a sin.. but in both scenarios my question is... where's the fairytale? maybe its just the girly girl in me but i always invisioned this "love" thing to be "happily ever after" like snow white or cinderella.
but u know what? people change and forget to tell each other. people fall in and out of love and break up over petty shit. people just dont seem to be worth it. people work and grow and i thought the whole point of being with someone is to work towards a common dream and grow with each other right? so what happens when u find urselves on sepearate pages in different chapters of your story?? to make anything work takes a lot of compromise and lateral movement to meet in the middle. "but if you have to move backwards to meet him in the middle, then its not worth it. you can't go backwards. " - mama hayati.
and i absolutely believe that two people can fall in love again, even after falling out of love and falling into complacenency with one another. i also believe that sometimes, love just isnt enough. and other times love isnt really love. its the fear of being alone, or its being too comfortable with each other, or its just plain selfishness. dont cheat yourself out of something amazing and vow to be able to tell the difference.
i've been with my husband for 7 years. people always say marriage changes everything. it kind of does.. and it kind of doesnt. the only difference between being married and not, is that breaking up is not an option. but then again, it never was for me.
they say love makes the world go round, but its what keeps my world together. after all the blood, sweat, and tears... love is what's left.. and for me, love is what makes it all worth it.
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
twit twat
so thanks to Jess, who has successfully bullied me into joining the newest and greatest social networking sites (AHEM facebook) i am now on twitter.
Monday, May 4, 2009
WTFancouver!!!
check What The Forks?! for more updates from the girls!

so we've been trying to figure out how to share our vancouver trip with u guys, cuz there are just SOOO MANY pictures to choose from and the entire trip was good. we all wanted to give u a specific point of view so we're each bringing u our top 5 Vancouver moments.
(p.s., as you'll notice.. my top 5 moments have more to do with my experiences with these girls than Twilight. more important than meeting the cast, or seeing the set, or whatever... were the laughs that made my stomach hurt, the drinks that made my liver run away, and the fun moments that exude awesomeness all around. =)
my top 5 after the jump.
5. Aiden Shaw. -- Friday morning we wake up to meet with Marina from Before the Dawn and on our way down, the elevator stops to let someone else in. Here comes this very very tall man, with the biggest dogs (almost wolf size i swear). the four of us WTF ladies are huge dog lovers so we start chit chatting, petting the dogs, etc etc. The nice gentleman starts talking and i recognize his voice but i can't figure it out. then it hits me. i turn to look at lawn and i guess she realizes the same thing and we start screaming silently! (remember, keep ur composure). Its John Corbett (aka Aiden Shaw) from Sex and the City! [which is my all time fave TV series, 2nd being Friends]. AAAHHH! i love tho, how we didnt even realize it was him until right when he was leaving. also, we could barely hold it together. imagine what we did when we saw the cast of Twilight! haha.
4. Photoshoot in Seattle. -- Sunday after leaving Van, we had a whole day to kill in Seattle. So we headed to the Space Needle and had tooo muuch fuunnn taking pictures of ourselves. we are toooo too vein. lol.


3. Getting Ready in the Suite. -- 9 girls. 1 shower. enough said! lol. it took us a good amount of time to get ready with people doing hair and makeup and outfit changes. we're girls. its just what we do... i just happen to do it while singing Whitney Houston's "I Wanna Dance With Somebody" into a flat iron. =) my favorite is while getting ready on Saturday, I get a call from Jess to "COME. DOWN. RIGHT. NOW." with no makeup, and someone else's flip flops, i jet out the suite, thru the lobby and into the street like a bat outta hell. more deets on that story to come. hahaha..






2. Club Shine. -- all weekend i was itching to hit up a hip hop / reggae place cuz i was tryin to get my body movin and for the most part we were at indie / rock places. Club Shine was neither (more of a vegas, trans, progressive music type place) but it didnt stop ANY OF US from having the time of our lives.! i SWEAR i've never danced so hard to "oots oots" in my life.
AND DRUMROLL PLEASE....
1. My Twilight related top 5 moment is... BELLA'S HOUSE! Our first stop on the Twilight Set Tour was Bella's House and can i just say that we had too much fun acting like groupies? lawn also did her own photoshoot with us here. hahaha... We got to see Bella's house (they were also filming here Friday Night), Bella's truck and the Police Cruiser. For the most part, the guys were pretty nice about us hanging out there and taking pictures, but one of em almost had a cow when i stepped foot onto the grass. EEK!

so we've been trying to figure out how to share our vancouver trip with u guys, cuz there are just SOOO MANY pictures to choose from and the entire trip was good. we all wanted to give u a specific point of view so we're each bringing u our top 5 Vancouver moments.
(p.s., as you'll notice.. my top 5 moments have more to do with my experiences with these girls than Twilight. more important than meeting the cast, or seeing the set, or whatever... were the laughs that made my stomach hurt, the drinks that made my liver run away, and the fun moments that exude awesomeness all around. =)
my top 5 after the jump.
5. Aiden Shaw. -- Friday morning we wake up to meet with Marina from Before the Dawn and on our way down, the elevator stops to let someone else in. Here comes this very very tall man, with the biggest dogs (almost wolf size i swear). the four of us WTF ladies are huge dog lovers so we start chit chatting, petting the dogs, etc etc. The nice gentleman starts talking and i recognize his voice but i can't figure it out. then it hits me. i turn to look at lawn and i guess she realizes the same thing and we start screaming silently! (remember, keep ur composure). Its John Corbett (aka Aiden Shaw) from Sex and the City! [which is my all time fave TV series, 2nd being Friends]. AAAHHH! i love tho, how we didnt even realize it was him until right when he was leaving. also, we could barely hold it together. imagine what we did when we saw the cast of Twilight! haha.

4. Photoshoot in Seattle. -- Sunday after leaving Van, we had a whole day to kill in Seattle. So we headed to the Space Needle and had tooo muuch fuunnn taking pictures of ourselves. we are toooo too vein. lol.


3. Getting Ready in the Suite. -- 9 girls. 1 shower. enough said! lol. it took us a good amount of time to get ready with people doing hair and makeup and outfit changes. we're girls. its just what we do... i just happen to do it while singing Whitney Houston's "I Wanna Dance With Somebody" into a flat iron. =) my favorite is while getting ready on Saturday, I get a call from Jess to "COME. DOWN. RIGHT. NOW." with no makeup, and someone else's flip flops, i jet out the suite, thru the lobby and into the street like a bat outta hell. more deets on that story to come. hahaha..






2. Club Shine. -- all weekend i was itching to hit up a hip hop / reggae place cuz i was tryin to get my body movin and for the most part we were at indie / rock places. Club Shine was neither (more of a vegas, trans, progressive music type place) but it didnt stop ANY OF US from having the time of our lives.! i SWEAR i've never danced so hard to "oots oots" in my life.
AND DRUMROLL PLEASE....
1. My Twilight related top 5 moment is... BELLA'S HOUSE! Our first stop on the Twilight Set Tour was Bella's House and can i just say that we had too much fun acting like groupies? lawn also did her own photoshoot with us here. hahaha... We got to see Bella's house (they were also filming here Friday Night), Bella's truck and the Police Cruiser. For the most part, the guys were pretty nice about us hanging out there and taking pictures, but one of em almost had a cow when i stepped foot onto the grass. EEK!







alright kiddos. there u have my top 5. stay tuned to hear from the other girls and get their take on our trip. we got stories for DAYYYSSSS!! lol. =)
Saturday, May 2, 2009
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